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Is it a sin for a Christian who

is in need to use CIALIS?

Because of my husband situation we have had no sexual relationship for the past year and...One of my friends told me that  “CIALIS” worked for her partner who was in the same situation. At first I was myself embarrassed to speak to my husband about it, instead I spoke to his physician (doctor) to talk to him about the drug, which he did but my husband said to me that he is waiting on God and that he does not trust this “medicaments” they have side effects and who knows what else will happened

Can someone suggest something else or is there other solution to my problem. As usual I am the one looking for a solution to our problems and they are never accepted. It is a very painful situation please advise...

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Ti Pitre (NY) I think you should go for it. Your husband of course don't agree because it's a sensitive issue. And in addition he probably have personal issues, feeling his manhood is being undermine, because he's embarass and feel inadequate and since you are the one who took the initiative subjugged.

I think you should try to convince him because you are 2 in this relationship. Would he had the same reaction if it was you who had the problem?

I think he should go ahead and take cials, viagra, or anything out there that can help his situation.

If he had something else like high blood pressure or a heart condition would we be having this discussion about the side effects? The sanity and the well being of your relationship are in jeopardy trust me I am sure it's OK with God. Who do you think gave the knowledge to the man who created this medication?

Trust me on this, Go for it and enjoy life.

God Bless.
Ti Pitre

samuel (florida) I believe that Jesus Christ is the way, the truth, and the light. just
have faith and you will be heal.

Plein pipe (Brooklyn)  My prayer to u change diet...excercices...change your attitude,take ciallis or viagra and have fun.Do not wait for God on this one because you will wait for ever ok.

Milosz (NY)   At the risk of repeating what Minerva has already so eloquently said, I will  add the following.  Since you did not specify what your husband

"situation" is, we’ll have to assume that you are talking about impotency.  If that is the case, then the problem could be physical and/or psychological which means that:

1)        He definitely needs to see a physician just as he would if he had

any other illness, such as a heart problem for example;  

2)        If your husband had a heart problem and was told that it could eventually lead to his death, what would he do? How would he deal with it?  Wouldn’t he want to be treated with the best "drugs" "medicaments" (side effect or no?) 

3)        Intimacy plays a major role in the life of a couple.  Now, isn't it just as crucial to take care of any problem that may cause major stress to the marriage assuming this is a curable condition?

4)        Given that impotency is a very sensitive, personal and sometime embarrassing ordeal for a man to deal with, you really need to take care not aggravate the situation by making him feel like it's his fault, or like he's doing something wrong;

5)        From what I've read on the subject, please keep in mind that drugs are not ALWAYS the remedy for impotency, some men overcome this simply with time accompany with a lot of love, patience, support and understanding from their partner; however it is highly recommended that he sees his physician who will determine the best course of treatment.

Your husband needs to be reminded of the commitment he made to his marriage and to you.  THIS IS NOT JUST ABOUT HIM.  I understand how he could be embarrassed about discussing his situation with anyone, even his

doctor.  However he cannot be selfish since this affects you as much as it affects him.  He really needs to think of the strain this will eventually put on your relationship if he does nothing to resolve it.

You in turn need to pray and ask God for strength and wisdom on how to cope with this "moment".  I can only imagine how frustrating and hard this is for you, but to the best of your abilities, try to exercise

love, patience, support and understanding.  I read that these qualities can

contribute a great deal to the recovery of impotence.  But above all, HE SHOULD SEE A DOCTOR!

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MINERVA GUILLAUME-MORISSEAU (NY)  If the root of your husband's problem is medical, then it would be quite logical to try to resolve it medically. I am not sure of the medication in question but you and your husband should research it. It's true that God can fix anything...when and if he choose to.Whether he wants to be treated with this medication is a personal choice. Whether a christian should take it "A MON AVIS" should not be a problem. Most medications have unwanted side effects. You would have to compare the risks with the dsired effects. People take meds to treat hypertension, which unfortunately leave unwanted and detested side effects like your husband is experiencing..yet, they have to take the meds to maintain or improve their health status. I would advise you to research and compare the risk. You do sound a bit frustrated. I hope this problem is resolved soon. Peace be with you both.

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Dehorn (NY)  Well, I think the problem is deeper than a CIALIS solution. If he really wanted to make things work "no pun intended",he would try what ever it takes to make it happen. He should show more consideration for his wife and not make it a selfish thing. If he's really against taking medications, you should suggest that you guys go to counsling. That would also show if he really wants to change the situation

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